Absolute truth. Absolute truth is something that is true at all times and in all places. It is something that is always true no matter what the circumstances. It is a fact that cannot be changed. Absolute truth is a very rare and dangerous commodity and is not dependent upon public opinion or popularity.
1. You Teach People How To Treat You By What You Tolerate.
If you don’t honor, enforce and respect your own boundaries, no one else will. We teach others how to treat us by how we treat ourselves and how much we let them get away with. Stop allowing people into your life who are disrespectful, cruel, demanding or anything along those lines. Take responsibility for your time and how you’re treated.
2. Your Never Asking For Too Much or Asking The Wrong Thing, Your Just Asking The Wrong Person
It saddens me how much we sacrifice pieces of ourselves for others who make us feel like we are not enough. Recognition and attention should never be asked for. Giving without taking in return will leave you a shallow empty hole that drains your energy. Respect should always be in our possession. It is something we do not ask from anyone. It is something to be shared and given to anyone so that they can give it back to us. Everything comes from within, even happiness. We cannot share something we do not have. Just like any tangible things, if you don't have it, you cannot give or share it.
3. Rejection Is Redirection. Better Things Are Waiting Elsewhere.
Often you think when you are rejected that you aren't good enough, but the truth is, they aren't ready for all you have to offer. Sometimes our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed, and rearranged to reposition us in the place we are meant to be. Rejection doesn't mean you aren't good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer. Don't be upset when people reject you. Nice things are rejected all the time by people who can't afford them.
4. Here and Now Is Worth Being Alive and Enjoying The Moment To The Fullest
Not someday when whatever you may be working toward gets accomplished. The secret to health lies in your mind and your body. Don't be sad about what's behind you or worry about what's to come, you deserve to let yourself be happy here and now. Living in the moment is to forget the past and don't wait on your future, for they are only in your mind. Exist in the present.
5.The Only Limitations On Your Life, Are The Ones You Place On Yourself
Do the Uncomfortable and become Comfortable. The second you limit yourself is the second you fail. Fight for your limits and they will be yours. Our success is based on our own expectations. What you think about is what your body acts upon. Just one time, do what others are saying you can't do and you will not hear them again.
6. Keep Your Goals Low Key and Only Share Your Progress With Those Closest To You.
Sharing your goal publicly, while receiving premature praise can make you less likely to do the work to achieve it. You could say it would have been better receiving no praise at all after failure. If you want someone to hold you accountable, then make it a close friend or companion, not a stranger. Most importantly, never let others know your next move. If you are willing to do more than you are paid to do, eventually you will be paid more than you do. But as Thomas Edison put it, " I did not fail, I just found 10,000 ways it does not work".
7. When You Let Go Of The Old, Your Telling Yourself That Your Ready For The New
There comes a time you will have to let something go. Sometimes simply for the fact that it is heavy. Let it go. Do not tie weights to yourself. If you want to let go of something, never hate it. Hate lives deep in your spirit. Letting go is not forgetting, it's remembering without hate. The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize the situation is over, you cannot move forward. Be gentle with yourself, healing is a process not a destination.
8. Amazing Things Await You, If You Allow Them. Believe That You Deserve Better and You Will.
Don't let how you feel, make you forget what you deserve. Once you believe that you deserve better, letting go will have been the best decision ever. Be done with anything that doesnt bring you peace. Be done trying to figure out what's with you, what's against you, or what's riding down the middle because they don't have the guts to pick a side. When you realize Loyalty isn't a word but a lifestyle, that's the day your life will change, but only when you understand that life is too short to be leaving the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket.
Please let me know what you think about this post. I hope for nothing more it ends up in the right place at the right time for someone who is hurting and struggling. If I left anything out, please feel free to comment and add.
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